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Negative Fantasies: Break Free from the Chains of Imagination
E.A.Fife
Fantasies are an integral part of the human experience. They allow us to escape the mundane and explore the realms of our imagination. Positive fantasies can serve as powerful motivators, helping us envision success and happiness, but not all fantasies are constructive. Negative fantasies can be detrimental to our well-being, holding us back from realizing…
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Overcome Confirmation Bias in Six Different Ways
Confirmation bias is the human tendency to look for and interpret information in a way that confirms our preexisting beliefs and assumptions. We look for evidence that supports what we already believe, while ignoring or dismissing information that contradicts our beliefs. This is problematic because it leads to flawed decision-making, distorted perceptions of reality, and…
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Asking for Help
E.A.Fife
Too often we approach life as a Lone Ranger, expecting ourselves to conquer all the challenges and problems on our own. Maybe it is pride, valuing self-reliance, or simply embarrassment, but asking for help is difficult for many. We miss out on the knowledge, wisdom, and experience of others if we only rely on ourselves.…
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Set Firm Boundaries to Uplevel Your Experience
E.A.Fife
If I created a manual for life, everyone picks up their dirty clothes and puts them in a laundry basket. They clean up the crumbs that fall off their plates, get their work accomplished by the deadline, and never forget a promise they’ve made to me. While no real manual exists, we have all created…
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Bridging the Inaction Chasm
E.A.Fife
There is a void that exists in front of each person called the “inaction chasm”. It is that space that exists between the thought of your next first step and the actual action. For some, this chasm is smaller than others, but leave no doubt it exists for everyone. No matter how big or small, determining…